Enneagram Personality Type Profiles
For those who have taken an
Online Profile these are
short biographies of the 9 different personality types.
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I
am self reliant, highly responsible and hard working. Administration
and organisation are two of my main strengths as I can see what is
wrong and what needs to be done to put it right. I place high
emphasis on integrity and maintain high standards.
I find I am critical
of myself mostly, but also critical of others, although I rarely say
so. My anger comes out as irritation or annoyance and I experience a
tension in trying to keep it contained. I worry a lot about ‘getting
it right’ - I am always striving for perfection and I feel guilty
when I don’t measure up.
Although I enjoy
pleasure, there never seems enough time to get to it (my life seems
full of ‘I should do this and I ought to do that’) and I feel
resentful of those who don’t follow the rules and get away with it.
I sometimes notice
myself making comparisons between myself and others. I can also
become rigid and over controlling and I repress many of my own
desires and impulses. It’s also difficult for me to be spontaneous.
My stress is usually
in the form of anxiety and worry, usually because my internal critic
won’t shut up. I feel overburdened by my conscientiousness and the
amount of things that need to be put right. I also find others blame
very painful, and their failure to take responsibility is
distressing.
At my best, I am
warm, enthusiastic and energetic, and I am generous with my time and
material goods. I empathise easily with other people’s feelings and
needs and I have the ability to show aspects of myself that will be
most appealing to them (I’m quite proud of that). In ‘one to one’
relationships I can be romantic and expressive.
Unfortunately, I can
become too giving and get trapped by being indispensable to too many
people. I unconsciously manipulate in order to get people to respond
to me ( I give and expect to get back ) and I get highly emotional
and accusatory if I feel neglected - there is often a confusion in
my own mind about what my own needs really are.
I long to be free of
all this doing and hate being controlled by others needs or feeling
dependent on them.
Good relationships
are important to me and I work hard to make them happen.
Type 3 – Achiever
I
am an enthusiastic personable team leader who is self assured. I am
practical, efficient, competent and good at motivating people.
My life seems like a
series of tasks, even my leisure time becomes a task to complete. I
like the appreciation and status I get from doing well and I
identify myself with my success. I compete hard to win, although I
am an excellent team member if it helps to get the job done. Failure
is difficult for me but even in failure I manage to put a positive
spin on it and then move on.
My image is important
to me and I find I can adapt my image to look good according to
whoever I’m with. My image must include the material benefits that
go with the job.
My feelings tend to
get in the way of getting the job done, so I push them aside until
I’ve finished. Unfortunately, there seems so much to do that I
rarely get time for reflection or my real feelings. I can however
give a good demonstration of appropriate feelings if the situation
calls for it.
I hate incompetence,
indecision, inefficiency or criticism, and I get angry at anyone or
anything that gets in the way of me meeting my goals or targets.
Type 4 – Creative Thinker
I
am a warm person with a different view of life, with an empathy
especially to people who are suffering. I am sensitive and creative,
maybe even romantic and artistic. I have a huge depth of feeling
which helps me to be authentic and introspective. I am a passionate,
romantic idealist.
My attention seems to
focus on longing for what’s missing in my life as I need to find an
ideal love or perfect circumstance which will make me complete in
the future - it is difficult to live in the ‘here and now’ which
seems so mundane. For me, feelings are what is real in life,
especially melancholy. I can wallow in them.
I seem to have an
enormous basket of complex emotions which can lead me to bouts of
depression. It’s funny but I look at other people’s happiness and
feel envy - this envy can lead me to shame or alternatively, I can
become really competitive.
My anger can express
itself as fiery outbursts, tears or depression. What makes me angry
are people who in some way abandon me, or I feel misunderstand me. I
hate people who are not authentic or people who try to change me.
Type 5 – Quiet Observer
My
attention goes to watching and observing before I involve or
participate - I prefer to think about it rather than do it. I’m not
good at small talk but I can more than hold my own on any of the
many subjects that I am knowledgeable about.
I like my own privacy
(I can even be secretive) and find uninvited intrusion difficult -
it seems to drain my energy. My delight is in intellectual things,
scholarliness and knowledge for its own sake.
Some people may think
of me as a minimalist as I can get by with very little, although I
find myself hoarding the essentials I do need (especially
knowledge/information). In fact, I prefer a simple un-encumbered
life style.
When it comes to my
social life, I like to know in advance what’s expected of me and
plan in my mind how it will go. After the event, I un-pack and
re-live the interaction and the emotions which I had detached from
at the time.
Although I have been
accused of being aloof, I am actually just thoughtful, dependable
and respectful.
I avoid strong
feelings especially my fear and my feelings of inadequacy and
emptiness. I get angry when people consider my facts are wrong. I
hate too many demands and intrusions and find it difficult if I do
not have sufficient time alone to recharge my batteries.
Type 6 – Loyal Sceptic
I
am warm, loyal and trustworthy, clear thinking in a crisis, with a
good sense of humour. I can be persevering , responsible and
protective. Intuition is one of my strengths.
Unfortunately, I find
this world a threatening place and my attention goes to scanning for
potential harm and being vigilant to danger. Often I am not aware of
my fear but I still find I withdraw from threat or alternatively I
meet it head on.
I often perceive
authority to be abusive. I feel drawn to the security of authority
but at the same time I am rebellious - hence I often support
under-dog causes. I withdraw from my own success because the
spotlight makes me vulnerable to criticism or attack - hence I
procrastinate or sabotage by not finishing.
Doubts about myself
and others abound and I find myself suspicious of other’s motives
and intentions. I have a great “bull-s--t” detector. I tend towards
anything that gives security or certainty. My energy is drained by
my constant efforts to deal with insecurity and with ambivalence
towards authority.
I get really angry if
someone is untrustworthy or they betray me. My anger comes out when
I feel cornered or controlled, or when my relationship with another
is overpowering or demands too much. I need them to respond to me.
My defence can be wit
or sarcasm. I can be accusatory and biting in my responses.
Sometimes I just lash out.
Type 7 – Optimist
I
am a playful, optimistic and enthusiastic person - life is an
adventure. I love life to be stimulating and up-beat. I have great
vision for things and I am helpful and highly imaginative.
Much of my life is
lived in my mind as I imagine positive, future possibilities
(fantasy if you like) - my options seem endless. In fact planning
can be more enjoyable than the doing of it. I hate confrontation and
use my charm to disarm difficult situations. My life seems
privileged and I work to keep it that way.
My attention focuses
on what is interesting, pleasurable or just fascinating whether it
is in the mind, in relationships or other more concrete experiences.
I hate to have my
options limited; I hate being frustrated or bored, and I put a
positive spin on almost everything especially to avoid a painful
situation or feeling.
Stress is caused by
over booking myself by taking on too many pleasures. I repeat the
cycle endlessly to avoid anything painful (pleasure is my form of
anaesthetic). Commitments can also cause me stress through feeling
trapped by them. I prefer to equalise authority - no one is in
authority over me nor am I responsible for anyone else.
My anger is triggered
by people who try to put limits on me. People who are depressed,
unhappy or stuck also make me angry. But my anger is brief and to
the point.
I can be a creative
networker, synthesiser or theoretician.
Type 8 – Boss
Somewhere
in my being I believe this is a tough world and the powerful take
advantage. I have learnt to be powerful myself, to gain respect,
power and control for me and other people close to me.
My attention goes
towards power and dominance. I try to control my own space and
territory. What is important to me is justice and truth and I will
protect those that need it. I have little sense of any personal
weakness or vulnerability and I certainly wouldn’t show it even if I
did.
Often life seems all
or nothing, black or white - no half measures. People say I can be
aggressive and intimidating, although I do not experience myself
that way. I may be impulsive and I find it hard to stop when I’m
really enjoying myself (having a lust for life, you might say).
I like things to be
exciting and stimulating and I hate being bored. My excesses
sometimes lead me to break the rules and can be self-defeating
leading to self injury.
What stresses me most
is injustice that I can’t put right. It’s also difficult holding
back my energy. It costs me to deny I’m in pain or exhausted.
I get really
upset/angry with people who won’t stand up for themselves, and I
hate deceit, control, manipulation and constraining rules. I will
powerfully and directly confront or I initiate a well
protected withdrawal. Other need to beware of my revenge.
They will also
experience me as courageous, persistent, decisive and fair. I am
generous and friendly. I will be self assertive and often intense.
My energy will rub off on others.
Type 9 – Mediator
I value a peaceful
and harmonious life style and try to keep it comfortable and
familiar. It helps me to have structure and routine so that most
things are predictable. I rarely get openly angry which helps
maintain my peace and harmony. My attention goes to relating
empathetically to others, and pleasing whoever I can. My energy is
often involved in less important tasks, so avoiding what may be
disturbing.
What I hate is
conflict and feeling uncomfortable, and I try to avoid what seems to
be the many competing demands of my world.
I am good with other
people - attentive, empathetic and supportive. I can adapt to meet
most needs with my accepting, receptive nature. I consider myself a
caring person if perhaps too adaptive - my own needs and desires
seem to get lost.
I often tell myself,
“it doesn’t matter”, but I get angry if I’m treated as unimportant.
I get angry at people trying to control me or if they try to force
me into a confrontation.
Generally my anger is
passive and I show it by being stubborn or just resistant. Once in a
while, I explode from a build-up of unresolved anger.
I am a good
arbitrator/negotiator and a good team person.
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